10 Better Days
He is now walking through a phase in life that demands slowing down.
The world outside still presses forward, urgency, age, relationships, responsibilities, achievements
—like an invisible net
But his inner world can no longer move forward as it once did.
This is not retreat; it is a deeper awakening.
He begins to realize that without reassembling himself, any forward motion will only be a cycle of depletion.
He has known love and loss;
He has given everything and tasted helplessness.
Those moments that seemed like failure were never a denial of his worth.
They were life’s way of forcing him to pause, to realign.
True pain often comes from having given everything with sincerity and earnestness.
For this reason, he deserves tenderness—not judgment.
May he be granted the strength to face reality.
Not by fleeing pressure or rushing to turn the page, but by quietly seeing where he stands :
Imperfect yet real;
Limited yet willing to carry;
Not empty-handed but rebuilding.
He no longer drives himself with anxiety or defines his value through comparison.
Instead, he learns step by step to take responsibility for his choices.
May he learn true courage.
Not the kind that brags or forces itself—but honesty in uncertainty;
Not endurance through suffering, but dignity even in vulnerability.
He allows himself low points, confusion, moments unready for what lies ahead—yet no longer lets these define his entire life.
He begins to understand : growth is not becoming someone without problems—but becoming someone who can meet them.
May he rediscover the capacity to love.
Not rushing to prove he is worthy of love—but first becoming someone internally steady;
Not sacrificing himself for intimacy, but protecting relationships with boundaries;
Not placing all hope on another person but learning how to stand firm within connection.
He starts to grasp : real love is never rescue or dependence—it is companionship between two whole people.
May his heart grow soft yet steadfast
Soft because he no longer turns cold toward the world or cruel toward himself;
Steadfast because he knows his limits, his duties, and his direction.
He understands the weight of commitment
And also honors “not ready yet” as an honest truth.
He no longer fears being seen as he truly is—because only authenticity deserves lasting things.
May time and grace work quietly within him
Transforming chaos into order, experience into wisdom.
Perhaps he walks slowly—but more steadily each day;
Perhaps still far from arrival—but already on the way.
He begins becoming someone trustworthy.
Not because he can do everything
-But because when he speaks, he keeps his word;
Not because he’s always strong
—But because he chooses responsibility.
The path ahead need not be perfectly clear right now.
All he needs remember is one direction : toward truth, toward light, toward love.
As long as he stays true to himself, keeps growing without ceasing
—and refuses to mask life with lies.
Life will one day answer his persistence.
In due time, love will return—and this time, he will know how to cherish it.
May he finally become such a person :
Inwardly grounded and eyes clear-sighted.
Able both to walk alone and walk beside others.
Neither avoiding duty nor sacrificing self.
One truly worthy of trust, and capable of trusting another in return.
